Ifestile okanye ilayini? lowo ngumbuzo. Impendulo inokuveza okuthile ngobuntu bakho.
Ngelixa abanye abakhweli khetha ifestile -Ukujonga kunye nobumfihlo obunxulumene nodonga lwekhabhathi ukuxhomekeka, abanye babeka phambili inkululeko (kwakhona, isihlobo) sepaseji, ukukwazi ukuphakama nokuzolula okanye ukuya kwigumbi lokuhlambela ngaphandle kokuphazamisa abanye ohleli nabo.
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Kodwa ngokwee-psychologists ezimbini udliwanondlebe ngu Umnxeba , kunokubakho okungakumbi kuyo: Abakhweli abakhetha isihlalo sefestile banokuba nokuzingca ngakumbi, ngelixa abo bakhetha le ndlela inokubekwa ngakumbi.
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Abakhweli abathanda isihlalo sefestile bayathanda ukulawula, bakholisa ukuthatha 'wonke umntu ngokwabo' kwisimo sobomi, kwaye bahlala becaphuka msinya, utshilo uGqirha Becky Spelman, ugqirha oyintloko kwiKlinikhi yoNyango yabucala yaseHarley Street. Umnxeba . Bayathanda 'ukuzala' kwaye bakhetha ukubakhona kwiqamza labo.
Isayikholojisti yengqondo yokuziphatha uJo Hemmings yavuma.
Abakhweli bezitulo zihlala zinobuhlobo ngakumbi kwaye zinokuthenjwa ngakumbi njengabantu; banamathuba okuba babe ziimpukane ezingenasiphelo kwaye bangakwazi kakuhle ukulala kwiinqwelomoya, iiHemmings zongezwa.
Ewe kunjalo, ukhetho lwezihlalo lunento yokwenza nangaphezulu kwento enye.
Ngokwe- uphando ngo Quartz Ngo-2014 , kokukhona bebhabha abantu, kokukhona bekhetha indlela. Ukukhethwa kwefestile kuye kwancipha njengoko umvuzo wekhaya ukwanda.
Ngokubanzi, nangona kunjalo, uninzi lweeflayithi zikhetha ifestile.