Kwakukho no-Andrea Connors noDouglas Wright. Esi sibini besicwangcise ngokungathandabuzekiyo zonke iinkcukacha zomtshato wabo wasentwasahlobo ngasekupheleni kuka-Matshi: Amadoda ayeza kunxiba iisuti ezingwevu ezinamaqhina afotokileyo, ibhendi yayiza kudlala Luthando lwakho nguTim McGraw ngomdaniso wabo wokuqala, kwaye umbala wombala wawuza kuhamba ukuba ngumxube owonwabileyo we-blush kunye ne-sage kunye ne-pops yegolide rose. Kwakuza kubakho i-anchor ice eqingqiweyo enamagama abo kuyo, ukubonisa indawo ekufutshane ne-marina kuMlambo i-Manasquan eNew Jersey. Nokuba imenyu yayenziwe ngezandla. Ngokufana nezinye izibini ezithathu, nangona kunjalo, banyanzelwa ukuba bakhulule ukubambelela kumhla wabo womtshato.

Njengoko ubhubhane wehlabathi kunye neziphumo zalo zijikeleza kwilizwe liphela, izikolo zivaliwe, iiofisi zafudukela kwi-intanethi, iivenkile zokutyela kunye nemivalo ivaliwe, iinqwelomoya zangqinwa, imida yatywinwa, kunye nemicimbi yenkcubeko -Broadway, iikonsathi, iimyuziyam , kunye nemidlalo yezemidlalo-zonke zema ngapha nangapha, zadilika njengee-dominos. Imitshato ibingaxolelwanga kwi-whiplash yotshintsho nokuba.

Njengabanye abaninzi, izibini ezine bezijamelene nenyani efanayo: ICoronavirus ibiphazamise imitshato yabo. Undwendwe lomtshato olungafunekiyo lwalungene ngendlela kwizicwangciso zabo, lwenza ukuba umtshato wabo ungabikho mthethweni kuphela, kodwa kungenzeki.

Njengoko iimfuno zokuphambuka kwezentlalo kunye nemiyalelo yendawo yokuhlala ikhutshwe kwilizwe liphela, izibini kwihlabathi liphela zashiywa ukuba zitshintshe ikhosi, ukurhoxisa izicwangciso kunye nabathengisi esele bahlawulwe, kunye nokutshintsha imihla yabo ebekiweyo.

Abanye, abanjengoDanielle noAshwin, uAshley noTim, uKelsey noBryan, kunye noAndrea noDouglas, bafumene indlela eyahlukileyo, yanamhlanje yokubopha iqhina: kwi-Intanethi. Abanye bathi ndenza ngaphezulu kwe-Zoom, kwaye bambalwa bakhetha ukusasaza usuku lwabo olukhulu Youtube , kunye nabathandekayo abahamba besuka ebhedini yabo beya kwiikhompyuter zabo ukuxhasa umanyano lwabo olukhethekileyo.

Kodwa bekusekuninzi ekufuneka ukufumanisile: Ngaba kwakusemthethweni ukutshata kwi-Intanethi? Kuthekani ngokuchola ilokhwe yabo kunye netux ekutshixeni? Bangazilungelelanisa njani iintetho zeendwendwe zabo? Ukungqina ukuba uthando luyazoyisa zonke izinto, nanga amabali ezibini ezine ezigqibe ekubeni zenze umtshato wazo ube yidijithali.

Ukukhokela

Nangona u-Ashley noTim bebehleli ngokuhlehlisa umtshato wabo ngo-Matshi 2021, bafuna ukuhlonipha umhla wabo wokuqala, u-Epreli 4, ngandlela thile. Sasijonge phambili kulo mhla ixesha elide kangangokuba saziva ngathi sisafuna ukusiqonda njengesiqalo sobomi bethu sisibini esitshatileyo, utshilo uTim, oqwalasele ukuba sele beyifumene ilayisensi yomtshato. Ukuphumla phakathi kweenguqu ezahlukeneyo zesicwangciso B - umtshato weholo yedolophu olandelwa sisidlo esincinci sasebusuku, umsitho osenyongweni emva kwendlu - isigqibo senziwa ekugqibeleni kubo, xa kwakhutshwa i-odolo yokuhlala ekhaya.

Kodwa emva koko yacofa. Ekuqaleni, umbono wokuba nomtshato obonakalayo wavakala ngathi uphambene. Kodwa xa siqala ukuthetha ngokuqhutywa kwayo, sive ngathi yinto esinokuthi singakwazi ukuyikhupha kuphela, kodwa sonwabe kwaye senze inkumbulo ekhethekileyo, utshilo uTim. Ukugcwala kummango wokuthabathela kuwo, yayiyeyona nkxaso intle ethe yavela kubahlobo nakusapho abathe batyikitya isivumelwano, kwaye ke, kwiintsuku nje phambi ko-Epreli 4, umtshato wabo oqinisekileyo waqinisekiswa.

Ngaphesheya konxweme, uDanielle noAshwin bajongana nemeko efanayo, benobunzima bokusebenza, okokuqala bedlala ngombono wokunciphisa uluhlu lwazo lweendwendwe kunye nokubamba umsitho omncinci, emva koko bacinga ngokuya kwiholo ledolophu ukuze bafumane indawo. Kodwa ngeemfuno zokuphambuka ekuhlaleni kunye nokuvalwa kwenkundla, babedibana nokuvalwa kweendlela rhoqo. Saqala ukulahla ithemba, utshilo u-Ashwin. UDanielle wongeze, Besicinga ukuba nokuba izinto ziqale ukuba ngcono ehlotyeni, abantu basazokoyika kwaye bangaze bafike.

Ke, emva kweminyaka emihlanu bekunye, kunye nemizamo elandelayo yokubopha iqhina, kubathabathe nje iiyure ezimbini ukwenza isiseko kunye nokwamkela umbono womtshato wedijithali. Kwakungxamisekileyo okomzuzwana, utshilo uDanielle. Khawufane ucinge ngokuhamba echibini elibandayo, inyathelo nenyathelo, de ekugqibeleni udeze intloko phantsi kwamanzi-leyo yayiyimvakalelo echazwe nguDanielle noAshwin: uloyiko olulandelwa yinkalipho elandelwa sisiqabu.

Kwaye ke, ngeCawa, ngaphantsi kweeyure ezingama-92 ngaphambi kosuku olukhulu, bathumela nge-imeyile iindwendwe zabo-ela qela linye lafumana i-imeyile yokurhoxisa okokuqala-inika iinkcukacha zomtshato wabo wevidiyo ngoLwesithathu ebusuku. Kwisithuba seeyure, iindwendwe zithunyelwe nge-imeyile zisithi 'Wow, licebo elihle elo,' kwaye loo nto yasomeleza isigqibo sethu, utshilo u-Ashwin. Sobabini sasiphantsi kakhulu kwaye esi yayisisisombululo sethu kwiingxaki ezininzi, kubandakanya nokuqinisekisa ukuba wonke umntu angadibana, kuba yile nto yomtshato: ukuzisa usapho kunye.

Ngeli xesha, u-Andrea no-Douglas bacinezela ikhefu emtshatweni wabo, owawucwangciselwe u-Matshi 28, xa indawo yabo yacima izinto ngenxa ye-COVID-19. Ngaphandle kokurhoxiswa, esi sibini sicwangcise ukuba nomsitho osondeleyo kwicawe ese-Spring Lake, eNew Jersey, ababezimisele ukutshata ngayo kwangolo suku lunye. Kodwa xa iRhuluneli yaseNew Jersey uPhil Murphy evala yonke indibano enkulu kurhulumente emva kwentsimbi yesithoba, bajongana nokukhetha: Fika ngaphambi kwentsimbi ye-9. kwangalo mini ukubopha iqhina okanye ulinde de kube kugqityiwe oku.

Yonke into yenzeke ngokukhawuleza, utshilo u-Andrea. Sifumanise ukuba kufuneka sitshatile ngentsimbi ye-9. ngo-1 emva kwemini, ngoko sasingenalo ixesha lokucinga ngako. Sasisazi nje ukuba ukuba asitshatanga ngaloo mini, ngekhe sazi ukuba sizokwazi nini. Ke, bobabini bakhawulezile ukuya kunxibelelana nosapho, babathumela ikhonkco kwi-livestream yecawa, balungisa iimpahla zabo, baqhubela kwindawo leyo.

Kwezinye izibini, njengoKelsey noBryan, isigqibo besingakhawulezi kangako; kubathathe iiveki ezimbini uku-ayina iinkcukacha. Iinyembezi ezininzi zaphalazwa-zininzi kakhulu ngam, utshilo uKelsey. Nabo, bahamba ngeebbs kunye nokuhamba, ukulunga kunye nokubi, imibuzo kunye neempendulo: Ngaba kufuneka siwubuyise umhla? Ngaba singabamba umsitho omncinci waseburhulumenteni nosapho? Ngaba banokuhamba apha? Kuthekani ngokufumana ilayisensi yomtshato kunye nokuchola ilokhwe ngexesha? Kwakukude lee kunoko besikucingile, utshilo uKelsey. I-livestream yeza ngenxa yabo bonke abantu esibaziyo abangenakubakho buqu - hayi abazali bakaBryan kuphela, kodwa nodadewethu ngokunjalo. Ngelixa kwakuyingozi kakhulu kubazali bakaBryan ukwenza olo hambo, udadewabo wapakisha umatrasi wamawele ngasemva emotweni yakhe, walala xa efuna njalo, kwaye waziqhuba ngokwakhe ngeeyure ezingama-30 nangaphezulu-ngeyure, esiya ngqo yedwa kwiintsuku ezili-14. Ekufikeni kwabo.

Esi sibini sigqibe kwelokuba sisebenzise ingcwele yaso yecawa ukulungiselela umsitho waso, silandela umgama ngokwendawo yokubeka wonke umntu ngaphandle kunye nokugcina amanani amancinci kangangoko ukuphepha umngcipheko. Bakhethe iYouTube ukusasaza inkonzo yabo, ngenxa yokuba ifuna izixhobo zomsindo ezingaphantsi kwaye kwakulula ukuyilungisa, kwaye baceba ukulandela iifowuni kubahlobo nakusapho emva komsitho. (Kuyamnceda uBryan wasebenza kubuchwephesha iminyaka emihlanu, esenza lula ukusasazeka.)

Ukucwangcisa umtshato, kumjikelo wesibini

Uninzi lwabantu abatshatileyo bachitha iinyanga- ukuba ayisiyiyo iminyaka-bacwangcisa zonke iinkcukacha zemizuzu yomtshato wabo, bekhathazwa zizikimu zemibala, ukhetho lweemenyu, kunye noluhlu lokudlala. KuDanielle noAshwin, kunye no-Ashley kunye noTim, elo xesha lalinganiselwe kwiintsuku.

Zombini izibini zazinabahlobo bobabini ababebambe umtshato wabo, kwaye u-Ashley kunye noTim bade benza uqeqesho lokuziqhelanisa nabadlali abaphambili kwiintsuku ezimbalwa ngaphambi kosuku olukhulu lokwenza zonke iikhinki zobugcisa. Besixhalabile kukuba abanye babathathi-nxaxheba bethu be-tech-savvy abancinci bazakusokola ukungena entlanganisweni kunye nokusetwa kwekhamera kunye nesandi, ngenxa yoko siye sazama ukulingwa nabo ngaphambi komhla ukubenza bakhululeke ngayo, utshilo uTim.

Oku kuyalela inani elincinci leendwendwe ezimenyelwe kubo Sondeza Umtshato, nangona berekhode wonke umsitho kwaye bawuthumela kuzo zonke iindwendwe ebeziceba ukuya kumtshato ophilayo. Bathenga imakrofoni efanelekileyo ye-USB kwaye badlala ngeenxa zonke ngokukhanyisa kwangaphambili ukuqinisekisa ukuba yonke into ihamba kakuhle kangangoko.

Sikwazile ukuba ukuze sobabini sibekhona kwifreyimu yevidiyo kunye, kuya kufuneka sobabini sihlale phantsi ngenxa yomahluko omkhulu kakhulu wokuphakama phakathi kuka-Ashley (5'3) kunye nam (6'9), utshilo uTim. Ukuziqhelanisa kuwenze wonke umahluko, ngokutsho kwesi sibini.

Ngokuphathelene nesinxibo, uTim wayenxibe i-tux awayeyithengele umtshato, ngelixa u-Ashley wagqiba kwelokuba agcine isinxibo sakhe santlandlolo kumbhiyozo wabo omisiweyo, owawuza kubanjwa ngo-Matshi 2021. Endaweni yoko, wanxiba ilokhwe emhlophe esuka kwiRent the Runway. (UAndrea naye wakhetha ukunxiba ilokhwe yogcino - enye kwishower yakhe yomtshato - kuba eyakhe yayisaxinekile evenkileni.)

Kwaye nangona esi sibini sasinomhlobo osuka e-Austin owayehlala khona ukuze asebenze njengomphathi wabo, babedinga nomntu okhoyo ngokwasemthethweni, ukuba abatshate, ke omnye umhlobo wenza umsesane kwaye wenza umtshato.

KuDanielle noAshwin kwisiXeko saseNew York, bekukho imigaqo eyahlukeneyo ekufuneka iqwalaselwe ngaphambi kokuya phambili. Ukuze umtshato wabo uthathwe njengosemthethweni, umtshakazi nomyeni kwakufuneka babe kwigumbi elinye, kodwa umntu ogunyazisiweyo wayenokuba naphina emhlabeni, ukuba nje babenelayisensi kwilizwe laseNew York. Irhuluneli yaseNew York u-Andrew Cuomo naye kutshanje utyikitye umyalelo olawulayo ukuvumela abantu ukuba bafumane iilayisensi zabo zomtshato ukude kunye nokuvumela oomabhalana ukuba benze imithendeleko kwividiyo.

Nje ukuba izinto zihambe, sithetha ngokusemthethweni, uDanielle noAshwin baqala ukucwangcisa umtshato wabo okwesihlandlo sesibini, okokuqala belungisa ifanitshala yabo ukuze babone ukuba izinto zijongeka kanjani. Ingemva komsitho wabo-igumbi elahlula ikhethini kunye nesibhakabhaka saseManhattan-wakhethwa ngomzuzu wokugqibela. Bade babeka namakhandlela ngaphambili kwanezibane ze-LED ngasemva, ezitshintshe imibala xa kuqhubeka umtshato, kwenze ukuba kubonakale ngathi izakhiwo ezikhethini ziyakhanyisa.

Emva koko kwafika umbuzo wento yokunxiba. Ngeevenkile ezivaliweyo, uDanielle wayengenayo ilokhwe yakhe yomtshato kwaye uAshwin wayengenayo tux yakhe. Emva kokuthumela i-imeyile inkampani ye-tux, nangona kunjalo, u-Ashwin wakwazi ukuthatha isuti yakhe ngentsasa, kwaye uDanielle wasebenzisa ilokhwe yokubambela kunye nesigqubuthelo kwiqela lakhe le-bachelorette. Ndingumfana omkhulu onempandla, ke bekungafuneki ukuba ndenze iinwele zam, kwaye uDani wazenzela ezakhe iinwele kwaye kwabonakala kumnandi, utshilo u-Ashwin.

Kodwa ayingabo bodwa abasebenza ngexesha lokuqhekeka: Abazali baka-Ashwin ngandlela thile bakwazile ukwenza amakhonkco abo ngaphakathi kweentsuku ezimbini. Umphathi wabo, owayenobuninzi kumsitho wabo osele ubhaliwe, watsala ubusuku bonke ukubeka imigqibelo kuyo, kwaye wonke umntu wenza i-toast yakhe kubusuku obungaphambili.

Babebambe ukuziqhelanisa, nabo. Malunga neyure ngaphambi kwexesha lokubonisa, abo babini batsibela umnxeba kunye nomphathi wabo kunye nabahlobo abambalwa abasenyongweni ukuhamba ngalo msitho, kunye nokuqhuba uvavanyo lweaudiyo nevidiyo. Okwangoku, u-Ashwin ucebisa ngokufumana i-cohost yokulungelelanisa umsitho ngasemva kwesigcawu-umntu onokuthi athulise kwaye angangqubani nabantu njengoko kufanelekile.

UKelsey noBryan, ababenoncedo lwabantu abasebenza noBryan ekumiseni izithethi kunye nemibhobho, bavuma. Inokuba sisiphazamiso kwisibini esitshatileyo ukuba akukho mntu unokusinceda ngomhla we, utshilo. Ngaphandle kokuba kubekho umntu oza kuqhuba izixhobo kwaye aqhagamshele ukusasazeka kwakho, oko kuya kuthetha ukuba kuninzi olwenziweyo kunye nokubaleka ujikeleze kanye phambi komsitho wokuqinisekisa ukuba yonke into iyasebenza. Kuba bendinabantu endibathembileyo kwaye ezinye izicwangciso ezakhelweyo zokulondoloza zombini iaudiyo kunye nevidiyo, ndiye ndakwazi ukulibala ngalo msitho kwaye ndonwabele umzuzu noKelsey noDan, umfundisi wethu kunye nomphathi.

Nangona kunjalo, uKelsey noBryan babeneminye imiqobo ekufuneka bayoyisile. Yonke intombazana iphupha ngokuhamba ezantsi kwindlela eya kwingoma ethile. Kodwa kuba oku kuya kuthunyelwa bukhoma, ukusebenzisa umculo onelayisensi kuya kusibeka emngciphekweni wokuba ividiyo itsalwe ezantsi phakathi komjelo. Kwakunzima kum leyo, utshilo uKelsey. Ekugqibeleni, safumanisa ukuba singawudlalela umculo ecaweni ukuze siwuve, kodwa wawuza kuthuliswa kwi-livestream. Yonke le nkqubo yayi malunga nokulalanisa.

Esi sibini senze uvavanyo ekhaya, apho uBryan wacela isibini ukuba siqinisekise ukuba siyambona kwaye simve. Kodwa bakube besecaweni, kwakungekho xesha lingako lokubamba uqeqesho. Sasivele ngathi, 'Kulungile, uza kuma apha, ke masivavanye loo mic kwaye siqiniseke ukuba iyaliphakamisa ilizwi lakho. Ulungele? Masiqale. ’Kwaye ngequbuliso, ndimi emva kwendlela kwaye siyahamba, utshilo uKelsey.

Ngethamsanqa, uKelsey wakwazi ukuyifumana ilokhwe yakhe kumthungi ngexesha lemithendeleko. Umhlobo wamboleka isigqubuthelo, kwaye wayesele enezihlangu kunye nezinto zakhe zokwenza iziqwenga zomtshato. Zonke izambatho zetheko lomtshato zazizalelwe-kwaye abo babengabantu bendawo bakwazi ukubakho.

Ngokwenene sinesazela ngokungabaceli abantu ukuba benze nantoni na abangonwabanga ngayo, ke sabanika ukhetho, utshilo uKelsey. Yiza ukuba uyafuna, nxiba imaski okanye iiglavu okanye nantoni na oyifunayo ukuze uzive ukhululekile. Omnye umolokazana wayehleli kubaphulaphuli, malunga neenyawo ezingama-20 kwabanye.

Ngokubanzi, umtshato obonakalayo ufuna ulungelelwaniso oluninzi, kufana nokuthandana nomntu. Ndicinga ukuba nathi besimangalisiwe kukuziqhelanisa kunye nokucwangcisa kusafuneka ukuya kumtshato oqinisekileyo, utshilo uTim.

Ngaba wonke umntu uku-Mute?

Ukungena ngaphakathi kwiikona ezahlukileyo zelizwe, kunye namasiko ahlukeneyo kunye noluhlu lweendwendwe, izibini zabelane ngesigqibo esifanayo: Umtshato obonakalayo uziva ngathi uyinyani. Kwacengcelezwa izibhambathiso, kwanikwa i-toast, kwanikelwa amakhonkco, kwaza kwasikwa ikeyiki, kodwa ngaphaya kokulandelelana kweziganeko, imvakalelo yomtshato (amabhabhathane angaphambi komtshato, iindwendwe ezinamehlo anengilazi, amaxesha amnandi, amnandi phakathi komtshakazi kunye umyeni) bafumene indlela yabo kwiscreen, nabo.

Lonke usuku lomtshato lokwenyani luzive ngathi sicinga ukuba umtshato uhleli njani, utshilo uTim. Imini yonke yaziva ikhethekile ukusukela mhla savuka.

Ukusuka kwiibhotile zeChampagne ukuya kwiindawo eziqhelekileyo zomtshato ezinjengekhekhe kunye neentyatyambo, izibini zanikwa izipho ezikhokelela kumhla omkhulu. U-Ashley waze wasebenza kunye nomlobi weenwele ovela eNioxin, owamncedayo ukuba alungele umtshato ngaphezulu Sondeza . I-stylists ilungelelanise iseshoni ebonakalayo kusuku olungaphambi komtshato kwaye yathumela kuye inani leemveliso, nazo. Wonke umntu unxibile kwaye wagalela isiselo sabo sokuzikhethela ukuze babenazo iiglasi. Ngokwenyani iyenze yaziva iyinyani kwaye ingeyiyo kwaphela, utshilo uTim.

Igosa labo, elisetwe ukubeka esweni phakathi kwesi sibini ukuba silingise umtshato ophilayo, simtshintshe Zoom yangasemva Ukubonisa ubuhle bendawo yabo yoqobo ePalm Springs. Esi sibini sabelana ngomdaniso wokuqala wothando, owawenza kwimvula yaseSan Francisco. Sobabini simangalisiwe yindlela ekhetheke ngayo, kwaye indlela ebifana ngayo nento ebesicinga ngomtshato kunye nabahlobo abasondeleyo nosapho lwethu, u-Tim.

Ngelixa u-Ashley noTim begcina uluhlu lwabo lweendwendwe olusondeleyo, kunye ne-18 bridesmaides kunye ne-groomsmen kunye nosapho, u-Danielle no-Ashwin badityaniswa zizixhobo ze-90 kunye nabantu abaphantse babe ngama-200-inani elikhulu kakhulu kunokubala kwabo babekho kwasekuqaleni.

Ngombulelo kwigumbi lokulinda leZoom, uDanielle noAshwin babenakho ukubulisa undwendwe ngalunye njengoko bengena. Kwaye bonke babekhona: abazali, ootatomkhulu noomakhulu, abantakwabo, oomakazi, kunye nabahlobo. Nangona bohlulwe zizikrini kunye nemigca yelizwe, ngobo busuku, ezi ntsapho zimbini zahlangana kakhulu.

Nje ukuba wonke umntu afike, imibhiyozo yaqala ngengoma evela kuGqirha Elvis Francois, owaziwayo ' ukucula ugqirha 'kwikliniki yaseMayo, elandelwa ngumsitho, izifungo, ii-toast, kunye nokusika ikhekhe. Umakazi kaDanielle naye wafunda umbongo, kwaye utata wakhe wakwazi ukukhupha iscreen-share, ebonisa imontage yeefoto zobuntwana bukaDanielle kunye nobomi besi sibini kunye. Esi sibini emva koko saqhekeza iglasi kwaye safumana intsikelelo kurabi (zombini zenziwa ngokwesiko lamaJuda), kwaye bathatha inxaxheba kumsitho womtshato waseIndiya wokufaka isacholo kumtshakazi.

Senze izinto ezininzi onokuzenza emtshatweni, konke kukonwaba kwikhaya lethu, utshilo uAshwin. Abantu babedanisa kumakhaya abo. Omnye wabahlobo bam, owayenokunxila kumtshato wethu we-open-bar, wayenxila ekhaya kwindawo yakhe evulekileyo. Kwaye abanye babahlobo bam abangatshatanga bandithumelela imiyalezo emva kokucela inombolo yentombazana. Zonke izinto ezenzeka emtshatweni zenzeka kumtshato we-Zoom ngeendlela ezininzi.

Ukulandela umsitho weeyure ezimbini ezinesiqingatha, uDanielle noAshwin bameme iindwendwe zabo ukuba zihlale, zisele, kwaye babelane ngezinto abazicingayo. Ngokusisiseko izixhobo ze-100, abantu abangama-200, kwaye wonke umntu ongatshatanga-nganye nganye-ithethile into, utshilo u-Ashwin. Basinike iintsikelelo zabo kunye neminqweno emihle. Ndicinga ukuba yayilulonwabo oluncinci ebomini bomntu wonke ... wonke umntu wawuphinda loo mxholo. Eli yayilixesha lokuphumla kwengqondo kuye wonke umntu.

Kwaye kwabakho nepati-emva, nayo. Abahlobo abambalwa baseta umnxeba wevidiyo ukuze babambe kwaye baqhubeke nombhiyozo, kanye njengoko bebeya kwenza ngobuqu.

Kodwa kwakungekho ngaphandle kwemiceli mngeni. Asinakwenza omnye umntu abe ngumbumba, ke ngelixa sinika izifungo okanye ndisenza intetho okanye silungelelanisa umsitho kwaye ndibuyele ngapha nangapha nomphathi, kuye kwafuneka ndithule ndize ndibangqine abantu, utshilo u-Ashwin. Sasinootatomkhulu noomakhulu kwiscreen, abangayiqondiyo into yokuthula nokuziphendulela, ke kuye kwafuneka ndithule wonke umntu, ndothule abantu abathile, emva koko ndothule wonke umntu ngehlombe, ke kwakunzima kancinci.

Nangona kunjalo, njengoTim, uAshwin wamangaliswa yindlela awayeziva ngayo. Ngokuqinisekileyo bendinamajita kanye ngaphambili… kwaye xa sifunda izifungo zethu, kwakuchukumisa kakhulu ukubona abanye abantu & apos; iimpendulo. Sibona wonke umntu kunye nathi uqobo kwizikrini- ibingumzuzu omangalisayo, utshilo. Kwakumangalisa kum; Khange ndiyilindele ukuba iyinyani.

UKelsey noBryan babebambe nepati yasemva kweentlobo. Ngelixa umsitho yayikukuphela kwesabelo esasifudula sihamba, esi sibini sabamba into ababeyibiza ngokuba ngumngcelele, apho iindwendwe zanikwa idilesi zaza zaxelelwa ukuba zingaqhuba ngeminqweno yazo ukuba ziyafuna. Indawo, kufutshane nesikolo, yayinemizila eyongezelelweyo yokusa ekuseni apho abantu banokungena kuyo bathi hi. Abantu babeneempawu kunye nemisinga kunye nomtya osisiyatha. Kwakumnandi ngokwenene, utshilo uKelsey. Ngaphezulu kweyure esime ngaphandle, bekukho iimoto ezimalunga nama-30 ukuya kuma-40 ezizayo. Kwakumnandi kuba kwakufuneka sithethe naye wonke umntu ohamba ngendlela. Ndicinga ukuba into enzima- kwaye eyona nto imbi kuphela - malunga nokungakwazi ukwanga abantu!

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Ngokufana nesivumelwano sokwenyani, umtshato okude wawungekho ngaphandle kwamahla ndinyuka-ngakumbi nangakumbi ngaphandle koqheliso kunye nexesha elincinci lokucwangcisa. Kodwa yayikukukhanya okungaphucukanga, isimanga esenzeka ngokukhawuleza, ukungalindeleki okungalindelekanga, kunye nobunzima bezobuchwephesha obabusenza ukuhlekisa okumbalwa, okwenze ukuba kungalibaleki.

Ukusuka kwindawo echithwe yiChampagne embindini womnyhadala ukuya kwiindwendwe zingaqondanga zenza amagqabantshintshi abucala esidlangalaleni, uDanielle noAshwin badibana nesabelo sabo esifanelekileyo sokutyibilika. Kodwa bahlala bonwabile-babephethe kakubi kakhulu, ngapha koko.

Abantu baphakama ngelinye ixesha ukusibonisa ukuba babenganxibanga bhulukhwe, kwaye udadewabo kaDanielle wayenza ngexesha lokugcotywa kwakhe, utshilo uAshwin, ehleka ngamazwi akhe ngokungathi iyenzeka kwakhona. Omnye wabahlobo bethu naye wayedle isidlo sangokuhlwa xa esiya kumtshato wethu. Wayelambile, wayesebenze iiyure ezingama-24, kwaye wayefuna ukuba yinxalenye yale nto, kodwa wayesitya lonke ixesha.

UAshley noTim, nabo, babenempazamo yokuhlekisa. Kwakukho imeko apho sagijimela kubunzima bobuchwephesha, njengoko sasinolibaziseko ekufumaneni ingoma yokuqala yomdaniso, 'Linzulu Kangakanani Uthando Lwakho' yiBee Gees ukuqala ukudlala, utshilo uTim. Ividiyo yomdaniso yayincinci, kodwa yayihlekisa kwaye wonke umntu wafumana umbono.

KuDanielle noAshwin, nangona kunjalo, ukuba kwikhamera kwenza izinto zangabinzima, ukunciphisa uxinzelelo kancinci xa into ingahambanga njengoko bekucwangcisiwe. Xa la mahla ndinyuka esenzeka emtshatweni wokwenyani, uye ukhathazeke ngakumbi okanye uxinzeleleke kubo, kodwa bekulungile kuba uncokola nabantu ngevidiyo, utshilo uDanielle.

U-Ashwin wangena ngaphakathi, esithi, ndicinga ukuba wonke umntu uyazi ukuba olu luxinzelelo oluphantsi-umzuzu wothando nje. Wonke umntu uvele nje kwaye wayenza yaphila, kwaye ndicinga ukuba ukuyenza bukhoma kunezibonelelo zayo. Sibukele ividiyo ngoku, kwaye iluhlaza ngokwenene. Ndicinga ukuba ukuluhlaza kulungile.

Izibonelelo zoMtshato woSondeza

Hayi, yayingengomsitho abaqale bawucingela, kodwa ngeendlela ezininzi, wawungcono.

Kumtshato wama-150- okanye wama-200 womntu, ungalahleka ekuxubeni, kwaye usenokungakwazi ukubona zonke iindwendwe kwaye ubabulise. Kodwa kumtshato we-Zoom, uyazi kakuhle ukuba ngubani okhoyo, kwaye bonke bathetha nawe. Unokubona wonke umntu kunye nendlela abasabela ngayo. Umnyhadala uphela awusoze ulibaleke kwaye indlela yokunxibelelana ... Yonke ibibonisiwe, ke yenza umbono wokungafihli, utshilo u-Ashwin.

Kwaye ezo yayingezizo kuphela izibonelelo zokuya kwidijithali. Umnyhadala wabo wawungaphelelanga nje kubude bempahla kunye nezinto, ngaphandle koxinzelelo lwexesha, kodwa babenako nokwandisa uluhlu lwabo lweendwendwe kwaye bameme abantu ngokukhululekileyo kunasemtshatweni wesiNtu, odla ngokuza nesithuba kunye nezithintelo zeendleko. Nokuba oomakhulu nootatomkhulu kwilizwe liphela, abanomda wokuhamba kancinci kwaye ngekhe benze umcimbi, babekwazi ukungena bathathe inxaxheba.

Kwaye, uDanielle noAshwin basaceba ukubamba itheko xa ixesha lilungile, babanike ngakumbi ukuba bajonge phambili. Oko kusinika ulonwabo olukhulu oludlalwe ngokuhamba kwexesha. Sifumana izibonelelo eziphindwe kabini zokuba nomtshato okwi-Intanethi- siyavuya namhlanje kwaye sonwabile kwixesha elizayo, utshilo u-Ashwin.

Bobabini uAndrea noDouglas kunye noBryan noAshley baceba ukwamkela ixesha elizayo-ngoDisemba nangoJulayi, ngokulandelelana. Sinethemba lokuba yonke le nto izakuhlala phantsi ngexesha lokuba yenzeke ngoJulayi, kodwa ukuba ayenzi njalo, siyazi ukuba singaphinda sihlehlisele umva enyakeni okanye siyityhale ngaphandle kwaye sibenombhiyozo wokubulala unyaka omnye , utshilo uKelsey.

Yintoni egqithisile? UKelsey noBryan, ukusasazeka kwi-YouTube kwabavumela ukuba baphinde bafumane amava. Singabuyela ekhaya ngobo busuku sibukele umtshato… Siye sahleka iziqhulo zethu ezincinci kunye nezihlandlo ezimnandi kwakhona, utshilo.

UAndrea noDouglas bamangaliswa kukuba bangaphi abantu ababukele umsitho wabo. Abantu esingabamemanga nakumtshato wethu bebebukele kwaye bethumela umsitho wethu, utshilo u-Andrea. Ewe, wonke umntu wayekhululekile nge-6: 30, ke ngoko siziva sinoluvo lokuhlala.

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Ukujongana nesandla esibuhlungu, izibini zajika umzuzu omnyama waba yindawo eqaqambileyo. Yayiyindlela yokuba sizive ngathi 'siqhelekile' okwexeshana kwihlabathi elitsha sonke esizifumana sikule mihla, utshilo uTim. Sinethemba lokuba siza kuhlala sibhiyozela ngobuqu naye wonke umntu ngo-Matshi 2021, ke le yinto nje eyongezelelweyo esibe nakho ukuyifumana. Kwaye ngoku sinembali eyahlukileyo esinokuyixela ubomi bethu bonke.

Kwaye nangona benetheko elicwangcisiweyo ngo-Matshi olandelayo, u-Ashley kunye noTim baziva ngathi ubunzima buphakanyisiwe. Ngoku ukuba sitshatile kwezobuchwephesha, kuthatha uxinzelelo oluninzi ngalo mhla ukufumana konke 'kugqibelele,' utshilo.

Kukwanjalo nakuDanielle noAshwin, abo baphazanyiswa yimvakalelo ekugqibeleni. Umtshato we-Zoom wanceda ekucazeni ezona zinto zibalulekileyo nezinamandla zomtshato obalulekileyo, utshilo u-Ashwin. Sijike into ebuhlungu sayenza into entle kakhulu, kwaye besiyidinga nyani loo nto… Eyona nto iphambili emtshatweni kukuhlala kunye. Ipati ayinamsebenzi, iintyatyambo azinamsebenzi, ilokhwe ayinamsebenzi, i-DJ ayinamsebenzi - akukho nanye kwezi. Okona kubalulekileyo kukuba utshata nabani, ukuba nindawonye kwaye niyathandana, kwaye abahlobo bakho bakhona ukukuxhasa.

Iingcebiso kwamanye amaqabane

Amagama amabini: Yenze. UDanielle noAshwin kunye no-Ashley kunye noTim babelana kakhulu ngalo mbono.

Yenze! Kwakumnandi kakhulu kwaye ndiziva ndikhethekile. Ngandlela thile, sicinga ukuba ibikhetheke ngakumbi kunomsitho wethu ophilayo ngewungenxa yokuba ususe zonke iziphazamiso zomsitho omkhulu womtshato kwaye wasenza sagxila koko kuthethwa ngalo msitho: ukuzibophelela kwethu nothando omnye komnye , kwaye sizithembisa omnye komnye phambi kwabantu abasondeleyo kuthi, utshilo uTim.

U-Ashwin uvumile imeko engaqhelekanga yomtshato we-Zoom, eqonda ukuthandabuza izibini ezininzi ezinokuziva zikwenza. Nangona kunjalo, wayeziva ngathi esi sisigqibo esona sihle.

Ngokuqinisekileyo yenze kwaye ungacingi ngayo. Musa ukuzibamba, yenza nje, utshilo. Ukutshata linyathelo lokuqala lokuqalisa ubomi kunye, kwaye ukuba into yokuqala oza kuyenza kukuvumela iimeko zakho kunye nemeko ongenakukwazi ukuyilawula ibize izithonga, loo nto ayizukuhlala kakuhle. Into yokuqala ofuna ukuyenza kukubonisa isisombululo kunye namandla.

UAndrea noDouglas babekwanabahlobo kunye nosapho ababakhuthaza ukuba balinde, kodwa bedanile njengoko babengengabo bonke abantu abanokuzimasa, esi sibini sahamba namathumbu abo, kwaye bacebisa abanye ukuba bacinge ngomtshato obonakalayo benze okufanayo: Nyaniseka kuwe nakwakho Omnye ongachazwanga. Sasisazi ezintliziyweni zethu ukuba sifuna ukutshata, ngakumbi kula maxesha okungaqiniseki, utshilo u-Andrea. Uye wongeza, Ukukwazi ukusasaza umtshato wethu yayiyintsikelelo kuba yasinika ulawulo oluncinci kwinto esele ifikile kubo bonke ubomi bethu.

Kodwa kulungile ukuba buhlungu ngayo. Ukuqala ukuya kumtshato wethu, ndibhale iposti kwibhlog yam malunga nenkqubo yethu. Ndithethile malunga nendlela oku okukukufa kombono, utshilo uKelsey. Sobabini besicinga ukuba umtshato wethu uyindlela ethile kwaye ukuyibukela yonke into eshiyekileyo kwakubuhlungu ngokwenene. Into eluncedo nangona sasizivumela ukuba sibuhlungu ngenxa yelahleko.

Ndizamile umzuzwana. Ndacinga ngaphakathi kum, 'Kukho abantu abasweleka ngoku kwihlabathi jikelele kwaye nina nexhala lenu ngomtshato? Zoyise ngokwakho. ’Oko kuyenze nzima ngakumbi. Ngokungazivumeli ukuba ndiziva ndilusizi kwaye ndidanile kwaye ndinomsindo, kuphela kukudinwa kwaye undixinzelele ngakumbi. Kwaye kwenza ukuba kube nzima ngakumbi ukuqala ukucinga ngesicwangciso B somtshato. Bendixhathisa kuba bendisakhanyela. Nje ukuba ndizinike imvume yokuziva zonke ezo zinto, kuye kwaba lula kancinci. Ingcebiso yam iya kuba kukuhamba ngenkqubo yeemvakalelo. Uye waphupha kwaye wacwangcisa kwaye ubeka umzamo omkhulu kunye namandla kulo mhla kwaye umbono wokuwa ngokwawo ulusizi ngokusesikweni.

UBryan wongeze, Kodwa ekupheleni kosuku, ukuba utshatile, usuku lwaluyimpumelelo.