Kwabaninzi, ukuthumela iiposikhadi yindlela yakudala, ephelelwe lixesha yokunxibelelana- yeyiphi ingongoma xa unokubhala nje kuFacebook kwaye ufune izinto ezithandwa ngabantu bonke obaziyo (kunye nomama wabo)?

Xa ndithumela iposikhadi kumntu endimthandayo, impendulo yabo (ebhaliweyo) ihlala iyinto ecaleni kwemigca, Wowu, enkosi! Andizange ndifumane iposikhadi ngonaphakade! Kwaye xa ndivuma kwabanye ukuba ndingumthumeli okhutheleyo weposikhadi, abantu bahlala bejikisa iintloko zabo babuze, Basazithengisa iiposikhadi?

Kodwa xa ndongeza ukuba ndibhala neposikhadi kwaye ndiyithumele ekhaya naphi na apho ndikhoyo ehlabathini, njengendlela yokurekhoda iinkumbulo kunye namava ohambo lwam, amehlo abo ayakhanya-eyona mpendulo ixhaphakileyo endiyifumanayo yile Zintle! Kutheni ndingazange ndikhe ndiyicinge loo nto ngaphambili?

Apha ngezantsi ndizokwabelana ngesizathu sokuba ndihlala ndizithumela ngeposi ikhadi kuhambo lwam- kwaye kutheni kufuneka ulwamkele olu siko lohambo, nawe.

Ngamava otyebileyo ohambo onokuwenza naphina emhlabeni.

Ukufumana kunye nokuthumela iposikhadi naphina apho ndikhoyo emhlabeni kundikhokelele kwezinye izinto ezinomdla kwaye zihlala zibonelela ngencasa (funda: eyiyo) kwicala lobomi basekuhlaleni.

Ndithenge izitampu kwindawo yokuthengisa iindaba eHungary; ndibongoze isikhokelo sethu kubakhenkethi eBrazil ukuba bandiposele iposikhadi lam emva kokuba ndilibale ukwenza njalo de kube kwisikhululo seenqwelomoya; ndingene kwii-ofisi zeposi e-Italiya, eHong Kong, nase Mzantsi Korea bejongeka bedidekile ngokwaneleyo ukuba benze abahlali abandijikelezileyo baziqhule bodwa xa ndizama ukufumana umgca ofanelekileyo wokuma.

Iiposikhadi zizinto ekulula ukuzifumana, isikhumbuzo esinexabiso eliphantsi esifumaneka kakhulu kuyo yonke indawo kwihlabathi liphela. Uhlala ufunda kancinci malunga nenkqubo yeposi kumazwe angaphandle, nayo, ukuba ibengcono okanye imbi kakhulu - iiposikhadi ezivela kwihlabathi liphela ngokuqinisekileyo zilwenze nzulu uxabiso lwam ngePosi yaseMelika.

Kuyanceda ukuba ukhumbule iinkcukacha ezikhethekileyo zohambo ngendlela ebonakalayo.

Kwilizwe lanamhlanje ledijithali, ukuba unento onokuyibamba ezandleni zakho kuyila into enentsingiselo. Esi sesinye isizathu sokuba iiposikhadi zam ziphendukele kum ngokukhawuleza ibe yenye yezona ndlela ndizithandayo zokuhamba- mna nomyeni wam sineposikhadi esivela kwiholide yethu yasebusuku yaseSt.Lucia ngo-2014 (nangona ngelishwa silahlekelwe yimemori khadi yekhamera kuhambo lwethu), kumnandi kakhulu ezinye zivela kwi-Adventures yethu ebuyisa iYurophu ngo-2015, kunye nekhadi leposi elivela kuthi uhambo lokuqala lokuvalela emva eSt Croix ngoJuni, ixesha elisele liphalazekile lembali.

Uyawazi lo mbuzo malunga nento onokuyibamba emlilweni, ukuba indlu yakho ibitshisa? Ingqokelela yethu yeeposikhadi ezithunyelwe ngeposi ezivela kwihlabathi liphela iya kuba yenye yezinto zokuqala ezandleni zam.

Ukubhala iziqwengana zohambo olonwabisayo kwiposikhadi kukunceda ukhumbule apho wawusiya khona, nini, kunye nento oyenzileyo apho. Iiposikhadi zam zihlala ziqulathe izinto ezimbalwa, ukungqinelana: indawo (ehlala ibandakanywa kuyilo lweposikhadi), imihla endindwendwele ngayo, kunye nemisebenzi embalwa yokuma okanye amava ohambo.

Yindlela ekhawulezayo yokugcina iinkumbulo kuhambo lwakho.

Ngelixa uninzi lucebisa ukushicilelwa kuhambo lonke, kungathatha ixesha ukuhlala phantsi ubalise ngezinto ezenzekileyo zosuku, kwaye ngokuqinisekileyo awufuni kulahla ithuba lokudibana nabahlobo abatsha okanye ucofe kolunye ukhenketho ukuze uvumele ixesha elaneleyo lokubhala phantsi iingcinga zakho kunye namava xa useluhambeni.

Endaweni yoko, yidibanise kwisikwere esincinci kwaye uyithumele- njenge-Tweet, kodwa akukho Wi-Fi iyimfuneko.

Sisikhumbuzo esifanelekileyo sokuqokelela.

Ii-knick-knacks ezinje ngoomazibuthe be-tchotchke kunye nee-T-shirts zipholile, kodwa zithatha indawo eninzi kwaye azinakuthathwa njengongenasiphelo-ubukhulu becala ziqokelela uthuli.

Endaweni yoko, khetha isikhumbuzo sokuqokelela esingagcini iinkumbulo zakho zohambo, kodwa kwangaxeshanye sithathe umzuzu kwimbali. Iiposikhadi ozithumela ekhaya azifikanga kuphela kunye nayo nayiphi na into oyibhalileyo, kodwa kunye nezitampu ezipholileyo kunye neepostmark ezivela kwihlabathi liphela, zihlala zinomhla obandakanyiwe kwiposti, nayo.

Unokukhetha uyilo lwekhadi leposi elibonisa umoya wale ndawo-kwaye ukuba oko kubandakanya ubugcisa ngumculi wasekhaya, nokuba ngcono.

Kwaye iiposikhadi zihlala ziyinto emangazayo ukuyifumana kwibhokisi yakho yeposi xa ubuyela ekhaya- nokuba zithatha iiveki ukufika. Nangona kunjalo, ngokumangalisayo, yonke iposikhadi endiyithumele ngeposi ivela phesheya kolwandle ekugqibeleni ifikile kum (ingcebiso: ungalibali ukongeza i-USA esiphelweni sedilesi yakho).

Kulula ukwabelana nosapho kunye nabahlobo- kwaye udlule njengendlalifa.

Elinye lawona macandelo okuhamba kukwabelana ngamava akho nabo ubathandayo - kodwa njengoko nawuphi na umhambi oyindumasi esazi, abantu ababengekho kunye nawe banomda omncinci wokujonga njengoko uskrolela kwifoto emva kwefoto kwikhamera yakho.

Endaweni yoko, beka indlela ebandakanyekayo ngakumbi yokukhumbuza malunga neziganeko zakho: bonisa ingqokelela yakho yeposikhadi evela kwihlabathi liphela kwi-albhamu yeefoto, amaqela anomdla anokuwatyhutyha ngexesha labo lokuzonwabisa ukuze bafumane ukubonakala okubonakalayo kwiindawo oye kuzo. Kokubini kukugcina kunye nokuqala incoko.

Eyona nto ibaluleke kakhulu, eli cwecwe liba lixesha lecapsule, indlalifa yokudlula. Khawufane ucinge ukuba utatomkhulu wakho wayenengqokelela yeminyaka eyi-100 yeeposikhadi ezigcinwe kwiihambo zakhe kwihlabathi liphela, onokuzisebenzisa ngoku - izikhumbuzo ezivela xa iThailand ibizwa ngokuba yiSiam, okanye xa iNtshona neMpuma Jamani zazinee-postmark ezahlukeneyo, okanye nini ISikkim neYugoslavia yayingamazwe.

Ukuqokelelwa okunjalo kuya kuba bubutyebi bosapho- kutheni ungaqali ngoku kwisipho esinje senzala yakho?