Xa mna nomyeni wam sizisa unyana wethu oneenyanga ezili-9 ubudala ngeempelaveki zokubaleka kwikhabhathi esezintabeni, sacwangcisa saza sapakisha saya kwinqanaba elinokucela umngeni kwimikhosi yasemkhosini. Ukanti, iintsuku ezimbini kuhambo ebekufanele ukuba luluhambo lweentsuku ezine, sayipakisha sayogoduka.

Akukho nto yayihamba kakuhle. Unyana wethu wayelele ebusuku, kubonakala ukuba unesisu esibuhlungu, kwaye wayeqhelekile.

Xa sihamba nosana, abantu babonakala begxila kakhulu kwisenzo sokufika apho, njengoko senzile, ngokugxila ekusindeni kuhambo ngenqwelomoya okanye kuhambo lwemoto. Kodwa njengokuba kunzima, ukuba akunzima, unokubakho-xa ufuna ukuba umntwana wakho alale kwaye onwabe ukuze ukonwabele iholide.

Nazi ezinye iingcebiso zokwenza uhambo lwakho olulandelayo kunye nosana luhambe kakuhle.

1. Beka umntwana kwigumbi lokuhlambela (kakhulu)

Abantwana bethu balala ngendlela engathethekiyo kuba sinamathela kwisiqhelo kangangoko ngexesha lokulala, kwaye isitshixo sokwenjenjalo asivumeli umntwana ukuba alale kwigumbi elinye nathi, kwaye kumnyama, utshilo uKate Emmanuelidis, onamantombazana amabini , ngoku uneenyanga ezili-18 neminyaka emi-4 ubudala. Ke into ephambili esiyenzayo kukuqinisekisa ukuba igumbi lokuhlambela esilifumanayo likhulu ngokwaneleyo ukulungiselela ipakethi 'n play okanye ibhedi yokulala, kwaye silala umntwana apho, ngomatshini wengxolo omhlophe uvulelwe phezulu. Isebenza njengekhubalo kwaye bobabini balala ngentsimbi yesi-7. ukuya kwi-7 kusasa ngekhefu okanye naphina apho sinokuya khona! Kufuneka uthule kwaye ungagungxuli ngelixa uchama ebusuku - ndithembe nangona kunjalo, kufanelekile!

Ngentombi yakhe endala, u-Emmanuelidis wathi yena nomyeni wakhe ngoku bacela uhlaziyo ukuze intombi yabo ikwazi ukulala kwisofa-kwakhona ngengxolo emhlophe.

Ukuba uhlala kwi-Airbnb, okanye umntwana unegumbi lakhe, zisa imibala emnyama, utshilo uSarah Shtutin, onabantwana abathathu abancinci.

Bangumsindisi wobomi, utshilo. Amaphepha aphantsi kakhulu, kulula ukubeka kwaye uthathe phantsi. Sibabeke kwi-Airbnb okanye kubahlobo nakumakhaya osapho ukunceda abantwana bethu ukuba balale ngexesha nokuba kukhanya ngaphandle kwaye balale ukuba besiphume emva kwexesha. Ngamanye amaxesha sishiya i-shades phaya kwaye abantu baye bathi iindwendwe ezilandelayo ziyazixabisa.

2. Bambelela kwindlela yesiqhelo

U-Emmanuelidis uthe bazisa zonke izinto zabantwana babo zivela ekhaya - iingxowa zokulala, iipijama abazithandayo, izilwanyana ezifakiweyo- kwaye badlula kwindlela yabo yesiqhelo yokulala.

Ukusondela kokuncamathela kwindlela yokulala ekhaya, nokuba yinguqulelo ekhawulezileyo, kokukhona baya kulungela, utshilo.

3. Cinga izowuni yexesha

Indlela yesiqhelo yokulala kufuneka ithathele ingqalelo indawo yexesha. Xa usiya empuma, yithi eYurophu, u-Emmanuelidis nomyeni wakhe batshintsha ixesha lokulala leentombi zabo ziye kwele-10. ixesha lendawo endaweni yabo ngentsimbi yesi-7. ixesha lokulala ekhaya. Kodwa le ndlela iba yingxaki xa befuna ukuya ngasentshona. Bazama le ndlela kube kanye kwaye intombi yabo ilele ukusukela ngentsimbi yesi-4. ukuya ku-4 kusasa ngekhe, utshilo u-Emmanuelidis.

KuJamay Lau kunye nabantwana bakhe ababini abancinci, uthe ayifanelekanga ukuzama ukuziqhelanisa nomda wexesha elitsha kuhambo olufutshane.

Kuhambo olude enye indlela yokubanceda ukuba bahlengahlengise ngokukhawuleza kukubavusa nge-7 kusasa okanye nanini na xa behlala bevuka ekhaya ukubanyanzela ukuba bangene kwishedyuli entsha, utshilo.

Uyenzile le ntombi yakhe xa wayeselusana, kodwa ukujonga ngasemva ukuvusa umntwana oleleyo kuyaphambana. Ngokwesiqhelo sibavumela nje ukuba balale kwaye bahlengahlengise ngokwendalo ngoku.

4. Cinga kwakhona into oyipakishayo

Zininzi izinto zokuzisa xa uhamba nosana, utshilo uLau. Ngamaxesha onke kufuneka sizise izinto zokudlala kunye neencwadi kwaye xa babebancinci sasizisa impompo yam yebele, iingxowa zeZiplock zeebhotile, iipleyiti ezikhethekileyo zabantwana, izitya, izitya, iikomityi, amashwamshwam kunye neebhayibhile zokutya.

UStutin uthe uzama ukuzisa izinto ezincinci kangangoko kunokwenzeka. Buza i-Airbnb ukuba banepakethi 'n play, abanye basenokubanakho ukuhambahamba, utshilo. Ukuba undwendwela abahlobo ubabuze ngezinto. Ukuba abanayo, jonga ukuba bangabuza ngeenxa zonke kumaqela abazali e-Facebook abolekise ngemali. Ndiboleke izitulo eziphakamileyo kubantu endingabaziyo. Ukuba uza kutyelela rhoqo, unokucinga ngokutyala imali kwi-ambulera stroller kwaye upakishe 'n ukudlala ukuze uhlale apho.

Wongeza ukuba bazama ukungazisi iitoni zezinto zokudlala.

Sihlala sixakekile ukuba siphume kwaye sihlala sihambela abahlobo nabantwana abanamathoyizi amaninzi, ngoko ke kubalulekile nje, utshilo uStutin.

Umyeni wakhe, u-Eugene Shtutin, wongeza ngelithi batshintshile kule minyaka idlulileyo ukusuka kwi 'let & apos; s zithathe yonke into esinokuyifuna' ukuya kuthi 'masithathe kuphela ... Uthe loo nto ibandakanya ukuba yinyani malunga nohambo.

Endaweni yokuba 'masithathe abahamba ngeenyawo kwakhona, ukuba kunokwenzeka sithathe uhambo olude,' kufuneka sicinge ukuba 'nini kanye kwishedyuli yethu esinokuthi sihambe ngayo?' Utshilo. Kodwa, wathi basazisa ikhamera yosana okanye iliso kunye nehumidifier xa uhamba ebusika.

5. Yenza isicwangciso sokubuyela umva ngokutya

Kubantwana abancinci, ukuzisa ukutya okuphathwayo ekhaya abakuqhelileyo, kunye nokuthenga ukutya okungakumbi xa ufika, ngundoqo ekugcineni iintsana zikhululekile.

Sipakisha yonke into esinokuyifuna ekutyeni, kubandakanya iibhegi, ibhotolo yamandongomane kunye nejeli ezinokuhambisa ukutya, utshilo uSarah Shtutin. Sithatha amandongomane kunye neziqhamo ezomisiweyo, ukutya okuziinkozo, ii-pretzels, imivalo yegranola, ngokusisiseko ukuba kukho ukutya abangafuniyo naphi na apho sikhona, sihlala sinento esesandleni. Ndithathe ipasta kunye nesosi kunye neoatmeal endinokuyibetha ngaphandle kokuya kwivenkile yokutya. Ndingathanda ukubondla ngemivalo yegranola kunokunyibilika kwindawo yokutyela.

Wongeza ukuba ukuba undwendwela usapho, ungabanika uluhlu olufutshane lokutya. Okanye, ungenza igrosari iqhube umsebenzi emva kokuba ufikile.

Ndizisa amayeza anje ngeTylenol, Motrin, Benadryl, thermometer, aids aids, Zyrtec, utshilo. Okuthenga ixesha elithile ukuba umntwana wakho uziva egula kwaye ikhemesti ivaliwe.

6.Ukuqinisekisa ubungqina bendawo (ukuba unako)

I-Shtutins ithe abaqhelekanga ukuzama ukubonisa ubungqina bentsana endleleni. Kufuneka ulumke, utshilo uSarah Shtutin. Sicele abahlobo ukuba basuse ifanitshala, njengokubeka isitulo esikhulu phambi kwezitepsi ezinkulu, okanye isithintelo sokugcina inja isezantsi.

U-Brett Pohl uthe xa ehamba nonyana wakhe omncinci yena nomyeni wakhe bacinga ngomngcipheko wokhuseleko ngaphambi kokuba bafike kwaye bazame ukwenza indawo ekhuselekileyo 'ewe' njengoko sisenza ekhaya ukuze siqiniseke ukuba ukhuselekile kwaye asiyiyo i-apos; uhlala usithi, 'Hayi, sukuyichukumisa.' Oku kunebhonasi yokusivumela ukuba sikwazi ukuphumla kancinci.

Uthe xa betyelele usapho benza ngokukhawuleza xa befika kwaye bacele ukuba babeke izinto ezinokuthi zonakale. Xa unyana wethu wayesemncinci, sasifaka iiziphu kwiikhabhathi ezazinezinto ezazingavunyelwanga ukuba zichukumise njengechina entle kwaye imini yonke yayigcina iliso ngaphandle kwayo nayiphi na into encinci emgangathweni, njengotshintsho, ukuze ifune ukutya .

Incoko yangaphambi kwexesha nabahlobo kunye nosapho inokunceda ukubakhumbuza ukuba bajonge izinto ezinokwaphuka kunye neengozi zokumisa.

Nge-Airbnb, ndiziva ngathi kukho inkululeko engakumbi ekukhetheni indawo enobubele bomntwana ngenxa yokuba unokukhetha indawo yakho ngaphambi kwexesha, utshilo uPohl. Ndiyakuphepha ukuqesha ngezinyuko kunye namachibi afikeleleka ngokulula.