Ukuba ujonga ukunqwenela kwakho kwii -apps zokuthandana njengeTinder, unokufuna ukuqaphela ikhondo lomsebenzi kwishishini lokubhabha. Le app isandula ukuveza ukuba amadoda adwelise ikhondo labo lokuba ngumqhubi wenqwelomoya afumene esona swipe sisekunene-esibonisa umdla wothando -kwinkqubo yokuthandana, ukubetha usomashishini, isicima mlilo, nkqu nemodeli.

Iyavakala, ugqirha wezengqondo kunye nobuchwephesha bobuhlobo, uGqirha Ginnie Love, uxelela Ukuhamba + Ukuzonwabisa. Abafazi bathanda umbono wendoda enamandla. Ukuba ngumqhubi wenqwelomoya uthi, ‘Andoyiki, ndinobuganga kwaye ndikrelekrele.’ Yeyona nto iluphawu lwelungu lendoda — inqanawa yejethi.

Iyunifomu yokuqhuba nayo inokudlala indima. Incinci malunga nendoda ngokwakhe nangakumbi malunga nento emele iyunifomu, uGqirha Deanna Brann, ugqirha wezengqondo kunye nombhali, usixelela. Nangona kubonakala ngathi yinto nje yokuba abantu ababhinqileyo bayabathanda abantu ngeyunifomu, iyunifomu imele amandla, igunya kunye namandla, nto leyo ityhilwayo ngabafazi. Ukuba ucinga malunga nomzuzu, loo ndoda inxibe iimpahla ezahlukileyo ayinakubangela impendulo efanayo emfazini; Kuya kufuneka kubekho into ethile ngaye emtsalela kuye.

Kubafazi, ibali elahlukileyo. Umsebenzi wokuqala owafumana ezona swipes zichanekileyo yayingumgqirha ophambili ngaphambi komyili wezinto zangaphakathi, intatheli, kunye notitshala. Kodwa, umsebenzi onxulumene nokuhamba wenze ukuba ube li-15 ephezulu; ukuba ngumgcini wenqwelomoya kungene uNombolo 13. Uluhlu olupheleleyo lwemisebenzi eshushu, Le ndlela .

• NguJordi Lippe
• NguJordi Lippe-McGraw