Emva kwayo yonke iminyaka yam yokuhamba ndikhula- umama wam & ampos; waba ngumncedisi wenqwelomoya iminyaka engama-36- ndifunde into okanye ezimbini malunga nokuba zeziphi iibhegi ozifunayo kuhlobo ngalunye lohambo. Akukho nto ikruqulayo njengokuhamba uhambo olude, nokuba lwasekhaya okanye ngaphandle, kwaye ungazilungiseleli ngengxowa enkulu ngokwaneleyo yokubamba izinto eziyimfuneko okanye ibhegi encinci eyaneleyo ekuvumela ukuba uphonononge ngaphandle kokuziva usindwa. Ngelixa abanye bekhetha iibhegi njengobhaka babo bemihla ngemihla, ukhetho lwam luyi ibhegi yomnqamlezo - yinto efanelekileyo phakathi kwebhegi ebambe ngokwaneleyo kwaye inokunxitywa emzimbeni wakho okanye ngaphezulu kwegxalaba lakho.