Ihlala inomdla xa umhlobo wakho osenyongweni, udade, umzala, okanye omnye umhlobo osele ekudala elahlekile kwinkampu yakho yasehlotyeni ebuntwaneni ekucela ukuba ube ngumkhonzazana obekekileyo emtshatweni wakhe. Nangona kunjalo, ngesihloko siza noxanduva, kubandakanya ukuseta iqela le-bachelorette-nokuba umtshakazi unyanzelisa ukuba ubanjelwe kwelinye ilizwe.

Ukuseta ipati yesihlwele kunokuhlala kuxinzelelekile, kodwa phosa umntu oza kuba ngumtshakazi onokuhamba umtshakazi opheleleyo nangawuphi na umzuzu, amantombazana amathandathu, kunye neenqwelomoya ezinde kwaye ujongene noxinzelelo oluza kwenza abona bahambi banamava bayadikiza. Ngethamsanqa, ngokucwangcisa kwangaphambili, ubucwebe obunobunzima bombutho, kunye nesi sikhokelo, nabani na angacwangcisa iqela le-bachelorette nokuba uya eTurks naseCaicos okanye eTurkey.

Ngaphambili: iingcebiso zokucwangcisa iqela elinokulibaleka le-bachelorette kwindawo ekude ngaphandle kokukrazula iinwele zakho.

Iinyanga ezine kwangaphambili

Qhagamshelana ne-bachelorette.

Ngaphambi kokubhukisha uhambo lwakho, yiba nencoko emnandi ngentliziyo kunye nomdla malunga neminqweno yakhe, iminqweno yakhe, okulindeleyo kunye nesimbo sakhe. Ngaba ufuna impelaveki yamantombazana ethuleyo okanye ulindele ukuqhankqalaza kwesixeko esikhulu? Ngaba ufuna i-ajenda epakishweyo okanye ixesha elininzi lokuphumla echibini? Ukuba neempendulo kude kakhulu kunokukunceda ukhethe indawo kwaye uphephe ukuphoxeka.

Iinyanga ezintathu kwangaphambili

Khetha indawo oya kuyo.

Ukuba uphumile kweli lizwe ukuya kwiqela lakho le-bachelorette, uyakufuna ixesha elininzi lokucwangcisa kwangaphambili. Khetha indawo oya kuyo kwangoko ngokwaneleyo ukuze wonke umntu abe nexesha lokuthenga amatikiti, alungiselele iintsuku zeholide kunye nokunakekelwa kwabantwana, kwaye, ukuba kukho imfuneko, fumana ipasipoti.

Xa ukhetha indawo yamazwe aphesheya, thatha ingqalelo ixesha lokuhamba, i-jet lag, kunye nezinto ozikhethayo. Ngelixa uhambo oluya eParis ngempelaveki luvakala lungakholeleki, ngaba kufanelekile ukuba uchithe iiyure ezisibhozo kwinqwelomoya? Okanye ngaba ukhetha into esondeleyo kubuhle baseYurophu, njengeMontreal? Ngaba ungumcwangcisi oyingcali okanye ngaba ufuna ukugcina izinto zisezantsi? Ngaba indawo ebandakanya konke ebandakanya wonke umntu okanye nokhenketho lwenqanawa luyavakala okanye ukhetha ukubeka i-ajenda yakho kunye nemisebenzi?

Enoba ukhetha iSt.

Cinga ngeendleko.

Ngokwesiko, iindwendwe kunye nomtshakazi oza kuba neendleko zokuhamba. Nje ukuba i-bachelorette impelaveki iqale, nangona kunjalo, iindwendwe zihlala zingena ukuze zigubungele umtshakazi. Kulapho iindawo ekuchithelwa kuzo iiholide ezibandakanya wonke umntu zinokuba lulutho njengoko iindwendwe zingohlula nje iindleko ngokulinganayo. Kwezinye iindawo ekuchithelwa kuzo iiholide okanye kwiihotele, okanye xa ucwangcisa imisebenzi yeqela, cela izaphulelo zeqela. Eyona nto imbi banokuthi hayi! Ukuba ufuna ukunamathela kuhlahlo-lwabiwo mali, cinga ukuhamba ngexesha lonyaka ongekhoyo (iMexico ehlotyeni isathandeka) okanye ukuya phakathi evekini.

Ukuba undwendwela kwindawo eselunxwemeni, hlala ukhumbula ukuba ukuphumla echibini okanye ukuchitha usuku elunxwemeni kukhululekile, kwaye akunakufuneka ucwangcise omnye umsebenzi (obiza kakhulu).

Olunye ukhetho kukutsiba indawo yokuphumla okanye ihotele ngokupheleleyo kwaye uqeshise ipropathi ye-Airbnb okanye iVRBO, uziphekele ukutya (okanye uqeshe umpheki akwenzele), uthenge i-champagne yakho, kwaye udlale i-mixologist.

Chonga uluhlu lweendwendwe.

Ngaphandle kokuba ungoyena mntu uhambahamba kakuhle emhlabeni, amaqela e-bachelorette aphesheya asebenza kakuhle noluhlu oluncinci lweendwendwe. Ukuhamba ngaphaya kwemida enabantu abahlanu okanye abathandathu kulula ngokulula kunokuzama ukufumana abahlobo abali-15 ngokusebenzisa amasiko, ukulawulwa kwepaspoti, kunye nebango lempahla. Inokwenziwa, ewe, kodwa yakha ixesha elininzi lokulinda elongezelelekileyo kwishedyuli yakho, ngakumbi ukuba uhamba nabo bangasetyenziswanga kukhenketho lwamazwe aphesheya. Nje ukuba uluhlu lweendwendwe lugqitywe, thumela ezo zimemo.

Bhukhisha ihotele yakho okanye iholide.

Ukuba ufuna ibhloko enkulu yamagumbi ehotele okanye kwindawo yokubhenela, bhukisha kwangethuba. Ayizukunyusa kuphela amathuba akho okufumaneka, kodwa inokugcina imali. Oku kuthetha ukuba uzakufuna ukuva iindwendwe zakho ngokukhawuleza.

Iinyanga ezimbini kwangaphambili

Ukunikezela.

Eyona ndlela ilula yokwenza iqela le-bachelorette libe yimpumelelo kukudlulisa uxanduva. Fumana oyena mntu ukumemayo kwishishini lakho ukuba axoxisane neehotele, iivenkile zokutyela, amaqela okhenketho, okanye iindawo zezaphulelo okanye ezivulekileyo. Ngaba umhlobo wakho olungelelanisiweyo unceda ukuseta uhambo, funda iinqwelomoya, iimoto eziqeshisayo kunye neeresityu. Yiba nomtshakazi oyilayo oza nemixholo yeqela okanye iipropu. Ukuba umntu unobugcisa, nika umsebenzi njengombhali wohambo.

Cinga ngothutho lwasekhaya.

Uza kwenza njani ukuba wonke umntu aye okanye ovela kwisikhululo seenqwelomoya? Ukuba ziindlela ezilungileyo zokuhamba, mabadibane ehotele. Ukuba ziiflaya ezinemithambo-luvo okanye wonke umntu uza ngenqwelomoya efanayo, cinga ngokulungiselela imoto ukuze ibathathe. Ngaphandle koko, qesha iveni ukuthatha iqela phakathi kweziganeko, kodwa bhukisha kwangoko njengoko benokuthengisa kwiiarhente zokurenta.

Khumbula ukuhlela ukukhwela (i-uber, iteksi, okanye i-limo) ukuba uya kusela kunye nendawo okanye umthendeleko wepati.

Yenza uhambo.

Ukusebenza nomntu wakho wenqaku (jonga ngasentla) ukwenza uhambo oluquka ukufika, ukuhamba, kunye nayiphi na imicimbi emikhulu ukuze iindwendwe zibhukishe amatikiti enqwelomoya. Ezinye iinkcukacha zibandakanya nantoni na efuna isinxibo esikhethekileyo (ipati yephuli!), Uhambo lwe-spa, ubusuku obukhulu ngaphandle (iklabhu yesamba!), Kunye nokutya, ukuze abantu bazi ukuba baya kondliwa. Uhambo oluneenkcukacha lunceda abantu bazi ukuba bapakishe kwaye bazi ukuba bahlawulela ntoni. Nangona kunjalo, xa ucwangcisa uhambo, shiya ixesha kwaye ujikeleze igumbi kwishedyuli, kuba ukuhamba neqela kuhlala kuthatha ixesha elide kunokuba bekulindelwe. Cwangcisela loo nto, kuba akukho mntu ufuna ukuziva engxamile okanye enoxinzelelo xa ukwiqela le-bachelorette.

Ngenyanga enye kwangaphambili

Yenza ugcino.

Bhukisha iitafile zakho kwiivenkile zokutyela, iiklabhu, okanye imiboniso. Yenza ugcino lwe spa. Ukubhukisha iqela leqela ukuba undwendwela iimyuziyam okanye ezinye izinto ezinomtsalane kubakhenkethi. Khumbula ukuxoxisana ngezaphulelo okanye iirhafu zeqela-qiniseka ukuba bayazi ukuba yinto ye-bachelorette party.

Iveki enye kwangaphambili

Gxila kwiinkcukacha.

Qinisekisa ngeehotele kunye nayiphi na iminyhadala. Qinisekisa ukuba uneenombolo zokuqinisekisa kubo bonke, kwimeko yokudibanisa. Fumana ulwazi ngenqwelomoya kunye neenkcukacha zonxibelelwano zabo bonke abakhoyo. Cwangcisa ingxoxo yeqela okanye iqela le-WhatsApp ukugcina wonke umntu eqhagamshelana.

Cwangcisa ukupakisha kwakho.

Ukuba ufuna ukuhombisa igumbi lomtshakazi, gubungela i-bachelorette nge-sashes kunye ne-tiaras, okanye uzise ulonwabo lwepati, khumbula uku-odola kwaye upakishe loo mihlobiso kwimithwalo yakho.

Kuhambo:

Hlaziya, fumana iifoto ezininzi, kwaye uthathe isikhumbuzo ukuze umakoti ahlale elukhumbula uhambo.