Yintoni ekufuneka uyazi ukuba Uceba ukuya ku-Elope Phakathi kwesifo seCoronavirus, ngokweNgcali yeShishini loMtshato

Eyona Imitshato Yokufikela Yintoni ekufuneka uyazi ukuba Uceba ukuya ku-Elope Phakathi kwesifo seCoronavirus, ngokweNgcali yeShishini loMtshato

Yintoni ekufuneka uyazi ukuba Uceba ukuya ku-Elope Phakathi kwesifo seCoronavirus, ngokweNgcali yeShishini loMtshato

Inqaku lomhleli: Abo bakhetha ukuhamba bakhuthazwa ngamandla ukuba bajonge izithintelo zikarhulumente wasekhaya, imigaqo, kunye neendlela zokhuseleko ezinxulumene ne-COVID-19 kwaye bathathe amanqanaba okuthuthuzela kunye neemeko zempilo ziqwalaselwe ngaphambi kokuhamba.



Ukuba wawundibuze kwiminyaka embalwa edlulileyo ukuba ndingacinga ngokuthetha, ngendandiphakamise ishiya ndingavumi. Ngelixa ndiwuthanda umxholo osondeleyo nothando lokubaleka ukuze uthi 'ndiyayenza,' eyona ndawo ndiyithandayo yemitshato ibisoloko ingabantu - iintetho, ukudanisa, kunye neziganeko ngaphambi kosuku olukhulu. Kodwa andizange ndiqikelele ukuba i-2020 izakuzisa ubhubhane wehlabathi, inyikimise imboni yomtshato ekuvukeni kwayo. Kwaye bendingenakho nokuqikelela ukuba ndiza kutshata, ndilinganisa ukhetho lwam kumsitho we-2021. Ngesiquphe, ukupopola nomntu endiza kutshata naye kwavakala kunomdla ngakumbi kwaye kunika umdla kunangaphambili.

Njengazo zonke ezinye iinkalo zobunzima be-COVID-19, ukubanakho ukusingatha le mibhiyozo kanye yobomi akusaziwa. Kwindawo ezininzi, iindibano ezinkulu zivaliwe- kwaye amanani omthamo ayahluka kakhulu, kuxhomekeke kwikhowudi ye-zip. Imida kwihlabathi liphela ihlala ivaliwe , Ukwenza iihambo zamanye amazwe kancinci, nako. Endaweni yoko, izibini zikhangele kwiiyadi zazo-okanye ezo zikumgama wokuqhuba-indawo entle yokutshintsha izifungo. Ukuchwetheza akuhambi nje kuphela; Baye baba kukuya kwikamva elibonakalayo.




NjengoJen Avey, usekela-mongameli wentengiso ye Indawo yokutshata yeMitshato , uyacacisa, ngexa ama-elopops ayephethe ibala le-millennial izibini ezazifuna ukuthintela, ubhubhane ubonakalisile izibonelelo ezimnandi zale ndlela. Ayisiyo kuphela indlela yabucala yokwabelana ngeli xesha likhethekileyo ebomini bakho, kodwa ukuphumelela kuhlala kunika ukonga imali, nako, xa kuthelekiswa neendleko zizonke zento enkulu kunye namakhulu eendwendwe. Abantu abasandul 'ukutshata babeka phambili ezi mali zigciniweyo ukuthenga izindlu, ukuhlawula iimali mboleko zabafundi, okanye nokonga iholide yomtshato exabisekileyo kwikamva ababengenakukwazi ukulihlawula.

U-Avey uqikelela ukuba ii-elopitions zilapha ukuze zihlale kwi-2021 yonke-kwaye nasekuqaleni kwe-2022. Ukuba ucinga nge-elopement okanye nge-microwding, nazi iingcebiso malunga nendlela yokuhlala ukhuselekile, ngokweengcali zeshishini lomtshato.

Idibeneyo: Xa iCoronavirus yaphazamisa imitshato yabo, aba babini babamba imisitho eyiyo endaweni yoko-nantsi iapos; kwakunjani

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Phendula umbuzo: Ngaba uyafuna ukutshata ngoku?

Akukho ndlela yokuyijikeleza - naluphi na uhlobo lokuqokelela okanye lokuhamba lubeka wena, iqabane lakho, kunye neendwendwe ezimenyiweyo emngciphekweni. Zininzi iindlela zokunciphisa nokuzikhusela, kodwa ezinye izinto azikho kulawulo lwakho: umgibeli ogulayo emva kwakho kwinqwelomoya, ukuqhambuka okungachazwanga esixekweni kusuku olungaphambi kokuba ufike, njalo njalo. Kungenxa yoko le nto uJamie Chang, umcwangcisi womtshato oya kuyo kunye nomnini weMango Muse Events, ecebisa ukuba izibini zenze ukukhangela umphefumlo ngaphambi kokukhetha i-elopement okanye i-microwding ngokuphendula lo mbuzo: Ngaba sifuna ukutshata ngoku? Okanye, sikulungele ukulinda? Ukuba kunjalo, ixesha elide kangakanani?

Ngokwenyani, u-Chang uthi imeko zeshishini ziqikelela ukuba umtshato wokuqala ogqithisileyo kunye nazo zonke iintsimbi kunye neempempe ziya kuvunyelwa ngasekupheleni kuka-2021, okanye ekuqaleni kuka-2022. Ukuba awungxamanga, mhlawumbi i-elopement ayingomdlalo ulungileyo kuwe. Ukuba ukulungele ukubopha iqhina, awufuni kubeka elinye ixesha, kwaye ukhululekile ngayo yonke imingcipheko enxulumene nayo, yiya kuyo. U-Chang uthi izibini zinokukwenza zombini ezi zinto: Elope ngoku kwaye ucwangcise itheko elikhulu lokukhumbula iminyaka embalwa ezantsi emgceni xa i-COVID-19 iyinkumbulo ekude.

Qaphela izikhokelo zikarhulumente kunye nelizwe kunye namanqanaba osulelo.

Xa ukhetha indawo oya kuyo ngenxa yokuvuswa kwakho, u-Chang uthi kuqala jonga izithintelo zedolophu, zikarhulumente kunye nelizwe kunye nezikhokelo ze-COVID-19. Qokelela ulwazi malunga nobungakanani beqela elivumelekileyo, iimfuno zangoku zokuvalelwa okanye iingcebiso, kunye neenombolo zokuqhambuka kwamva nje. Ngokubanzi, u-Chang uthi indawo evulekileyo kokukhona, umngcipheko kunye nokwenzeka kokosuleleka kuphezulu.

Xa ujonga amaxabiso, jonga iinombolo zangoku nezedlulileyo zokufumana ukuqonda malunga nokuba indawo ekuyiwa kuyo ibisasebenza kangakanani kwimeko yezempilo. Oku kukubonisa ukuba lukhuseleke kangakanani uluntu lwabo kwaye babuthatha kangakanani ubhubhane. Awufuni ukukhetha indawo oya kuyo nenqanaba eliphezulu losulelo; Akuncedi wena okanye uluntu ukuba lutyelele kwindawo enzima, nokuba bayayivumela imitshato, utshilo.

Idibeneyo: Isisombululo esingalindelekanga kwimitshato yokuya kwiXesha le-COVID-19