Ukuqala uhambo lodwa njengoko umntu omkhulu eza neseti yayo yemiceli mngeni- kunye neerks. Ukuhamba + Ukuzonwabisa yaguqukela kwingcali yokuhamba yedwa solo uJanice Waugh ka Umhambi welizwe leSolo ukuqonda ukuba yintoni hayi ukwenza njengendoda ehambahambayo ehamba yedwa.

Ukucinga ukuba Umncinci kunawe

Musa ukubabek ’ongezantsi ubuchule bakho - okanye ubujongele phantsi ubudala bakho. Kuqhelekile, Waugh uyahleka. Xa ubetha malunga ne-40 okanye i-50, ucinga ukuba umalunga ne-10, iminyaka engama-20 mncinci kunawe. Kubaluleke kakhulu ukuba uthathe uvavanyo kwaye ubazi ubuchule bakho bomzimba ukuze ungazifaki kwimeko engathandekiyo. Yazi ukuba ungahamba umgama ongakanani, ungakhwela umgama ongakanani, unganyuka malini, zithini izinyuko kuwe, zinjani kwiindawo ezingalinganiyo - thatha ingqalelo yoku, kuba ingaluchaphazela ulonwabo lwakho kube kanye Hamba.

Ukukhetha indawo ekuyiyo engafanelekanga kwimeko yakho

Cwangcisa uhambo ngokwendlela ekulungele ngayo kweli nqanaba lobomi. Kuya kufuneka ukhethe uhambo, ukhenketho, okanye indawo ekuyifaneleyo-kwaye loo nto iya kuphinda ibuchaphazele ubuchule bakho, utshilo uWaugh. Mhlawumbi ubukhe wakhenketha kakhulu ngaphambili, kodwa akukho nje kumakhadi, kodwa uyakuthanda nokupheka, ke uya e-Italiya kwaye uthathe ikhosi yokupheka. Ngamanye amaxesha kuya kufuneka ulungelelanise ngokwamaxesha ebomini bakho.

Ukubhabha yedwa xa uhambo lweqela lungangcono

Ngokusekwe kwindawo oyifunayo kunye nemisebenzi, misela ukuba ngaba utyelelo lolona lufanelekileyo lwenziwe wedwa okanye ukwamkelwa kukhenketho lweqela. Kubaluleke kakhulu ukuvavanya indawo ekuyiwa kuyo kunye nokuba inokuba ngumceli mngeni kangakanani kwaye nokuba kungangcono na kukhenketho, utshilo uWaugh. Okanye unokuba uzijongile kwaye uthi, 'Uyazi yintoni, ngoku ndikwinqanaba apho ndifuna khona ukhuphelo olungaphezulu ukuze kuthi xa kukho into engahambanga kakuhle, ndinomkhokeli wabakhenkethi endiza kujika kuye.' kuhlobo lohambo lwakho - oluzimeleyo okanye olukhenketho okanye uhambo ngenqanawa yomlambo okanye into enjalo - ndicinga ukuba yeyona nto ibalulekileyo ekufuneka uyenzile.

Ukungathengi i-Inshurensi yokuHamba

Kwizangqa ezininzi, i-inshurensi yokuhamba ilungele ingxoxo, kodwa uWaugh akazukuhamba ngaphandle kwayo.

Ndithengile i-inshurensi yokuhamba ubomi bam bonke-kwaye ndiphumelele umdlalo kwiminyaka ethile, utshilo. Kuya kufuneka ube neinshurensi yokuhamba. Kubaluleke kakhulu. Kuya kubiza kakhulu njengoko usiya ukhula, ke oko kunokuba ngumceli mngeni, kodwa izinto ezininzi zinokungahambi kakuhle, yiyo loo nto zibiza kakhulu. Ucebisa ngokubala i-inshurensi yokuhamba njengenxalenye yeendleko zohambo lwakho.

Ngaba ukhetha njani ukuba yeyiphi iphakheji yeinshurensi yokuhamba okanye inqanaba lokugubungela lilungile kuwe? Wonke umntu unenqanaba lakhe lomngcipheko, nanjengomntu omkhulu, utshilo uWaugh. Ukuba awukhathali nokuba ulahlekelwe yimithwalo yakho, sukuyigubungela. Jonga kuyo ngokweyona nto ufuna ukuyithenga.

Ukucinga ukuba ngekhe udibane naBadala abaHamba ngeSolo okokuqala

Ukuzama into entsha kuhlala kuyisoyikisa kuba usoyika ukuba ezinye ziingcali ezinamava ebekuzo iminyaka. Kodwa xa kuziwa ekuhambeni, awuwedwa; uninzi lwabantu abadala bahamba bodwa okokuqala ebomini babo.

Ngokuka-Waugh, Rhoqo, [abantu abadala] bahamba bodwa okokuqala, kwaye oku kunokuba njalo kuba bengumhlolokazi okanye umhlolo. Okanye uqhawule umtshato-uninzi lwabantu luqhawula umtshato kwiminyaka yabo yama-50 nakwiminyaka yama-60s akuba abantwana bemkile. Okanye kusenokwenzeka ukuba elinye iqela alifuni kuhamba; mhlawumbi bahamba ngomsebenzi ubomi babo bonke kwaye babenazo neenqwelo moya, kwaye enye inomdla wokuphuma kunye nokuhlola umhlaba. Zininzi izizathu zokuba abantu beza kuhamba bodwa ebomini.

Kubantu abadala abathathela ingqalelo ukuhamba bodwa okokuqala kwaye befumanisa ukuba kuya kuba nzima, uWaugh ucebisa ukuba kusetwe iqela. Uninzi lwabantu abadala baya kukhenketho okanye uhambo lokuhambisa, kwaye oko kuyayikhathaza loo nto, utshilo. Uyazi ukuba uya kuhlala nomntu ukuba nesidlo sangokuhlwa; uyazi ukuba umntu uza kuhamba yonke indawo. Ke leyo yindlela efanelekileyo kwaye eluncedo yokuhamba kwabantu abadala.

Uqikelela ukuba mhlawumbi iipesenti ezingama-75 zabantu abadala abahamba bodwa bakhetha ukhenketho, kodwa ngokuqinisekileyo kukho abathile abakhetha ukuphonononga ngokuzimeleyo. Ndicinga ukuba okoko nje ulungile kwaye usempilweni kwaye unomdla, emva koko isebenza kakuhle, utshilo uWaugh. Abo bahamba ngokuzimeleyo, kunomdla kakhulu ukubona impendulo yehlabathi kubo. Yamkelekile kakhulu.

Ungaqali Ngezantsi

Enye indlela yomlilo oqinisekileyo wokuhamba ngokukhululeka ngokwakho njengomntu omkhulu kukuqala encinci kwaye uhlale ekuhlaleni. Yiya kwisixeko esikude kuwe, apho iqheleke ngokwenene, u-Waugh ucebisa.

Ukuba unamava amaninzi okuhamba kwaye ayisiyiyo leyo hambo ikudidayo kodwa ukuba wedwa, emva koko ukhethe indawo engaqhelekanga okwangoku. Ukuba ufuna ukuba nomdla ngakumbi kunokuhamba nje ngendlela, ngokuthetha, yiya e-UK okanye uye kwilizwe lonke okanye uye kwindawo apho isiNgesi sithethwa khona kwaye iyaziwa kakuhle ukuba isebenza njani ilizwe, u-Waugh ucebisa. Ufumana iinyawo zakho zimanzi ngaloo ndlela.

Ukujongwa kokuNgezelelweyo kweSongezelelo

Ukuhamba wedwa kunokuba nexabiso ngokumangalisayo xa usiya kwisongezo esinye esoyikekayo. Ngenxa yokuba uninzi lwamagumbi ehotele kunye neekhareji zeenqanawa zakhiwe ukulungiselela abantu ababini, abahamba bodwa bahlala bedibana nentlawulo eyongezelelweyo ekhoyo ukuhlawulela ukungabikho komthamo opheleleyo.

Isongezelelo esinye, ngokwembali, siye saya kufikelela kwiipesenti ezili-100, kwaye kusekho kwezinye iindawo, ulumkisa uWaugh. I-Solo Traveler World ibhengeza iinkampani zokhenketho ngaphandle kwesongezo esinye okanye isongezo esinye esisezantsi. Sineepesenti ezingama-20, kungenjalo abanakubhengeza kwiphepha lethu, utshilo uWaugh. Ndicinga ukuba kuphela kwesixhobo esikwi-intanethi kubahambi bodwa ukuze bafumane iihambo ezenzelwe ngokwenene abahambi bodwa.

UngayiHleli kwiQhinga loNxibelelwano ngaphambi kokuba uhambe

Musa ukushiya ikhaya ungazi ukuba uza kunxibelelana njani nekhaya xa imeko yongxamiseko.

Yintoni enokwenzeka, ukuba uphantsi koxinzelelo kunye nezinto ekufuneka uzenzile ukunxibelelana nekhaya okanye nommeli wakho wokuhamba okanye nabani na ongakucacelanga - ukuba usebenzisa ifowuni kwaye usandula ukuyithenga ifowuni, olo hlobo lwento-uxinzelelo lunokuyenza ingenzeki, phantse, utshilo uWaugh. Ke qiniseka ukuba ushiya uqinisekile ngenene malunga nendlela onxibelelana ngayo nekhaya.

Ukungasebenzisi iTekhnoloji ukwenza ukuHamba kubelula

Musa ukuzibopha ngezixhobo ongazukuzisebenzisa, kodwa uvuleke ekufundeni nasekusebenziseni izixhobo ezininzi zokuhamba ezikhoyo kule mihla yanamhlanje. Ukuhamba netekhnoloji akuyimfuneko, nangona kunokuba luncedo, utshilo uWaugh.

Gcina oko ukhululekile kuko. Ukuba uya kwilizwe elingelolwimi oluthethayo, ngokuqinisekileyo ngokuqinisekileyo ukhululeke ngohlelo lokusebenza lokuguqulela. Ukwacebisa ukusebenzisa iGoogle Street View ukuba ujonge indawo ngaphambi kokubhukisha indawo yokuhlala.

Ukugcwala ngaphezulu

Ukugcwala ngaphezulu kwenza ukuhamba kube nzima kwaye kubize. Ndicebisa ukuba ibhegi enye yokuphatha kwaye ndiyabongoza abantu ukuba bahambe nayo kuba uhamba kakhulu ngale ndlela, utshilo uWaugh. Ucebisa ukuba ukhethe imibala emibini yesiseko se-wardrobe yakho kunye nokufikelela kwizinto ezingakhanyisiyo, ubucwebe obuncinci kunye nezikhafu.

Ndihambile kwiihambo zeshishini ezineehambo ezisecaleni zokuhamba intaba kwaye konke kuqhubeka ngokuqhubekayo; Ndikhe ndahlala inyanga enye ngokuqhubeka, utshilo uWaugh. Ingasoloko isenziwa.

Ngokubanzi, gcina iibhegi zakho zikhanya ngokugcina uluhlu lwakho lokupakisha lulula kwaye lubhetyebhetye.

Ukucwangcisa Ukufika Kwakho Emva Kokuhlwa

Njengomntu omkhulu, kuya kufuneka ucwangcise ukufika kwindawo oya kuyo ngexesha lasemini-ilizwe alikhangeleki likhuselekile kwaye kulula ukuhamba ebumnyameni, ulumkisa uWaugh.

Ndaya eHavana ngelinye ixesha ndafika sele kuhlwile, utshilo. Ndilahlwe kumda weOld Havana, apho bekungekho zimoto, kwaye kuye kwafuneka ndirhuqe ibhegi yam yokugudla ngaphezulu kwamatye eentsika kwindawo emnyama, kuba bekungekho kukhanya kakhulu esitratweni, ukufumana ihotele yam, ezazicinyiwe iingcango. Kwaye unokuthelekelela: ibhegi yam isenza ezi zandi zirhabaxa ngaphezulu kwamatye eenkobe; Iyangqinelana nezakhiwo kwaye ndiziva ndisesichengeni ngendlela emangalisayo. Kulapho ndafunda khona: qiniseka ukuba ufika emini. Ubomi buya kuba lula.

Ukutyeshela ubuNtu bakho kunye nokuTyeshela ukuLumka

Inxalenye yokuziqhelanisa nendawo ekungqongileyo-ngaphaya kokufunda iimephu kunye nokudibanisa uhambo oluvakalayo ngokwendawo-kukuthemba amathumbu akho. Ukuba kukho into oziva ungonwabanga, phuma apho, utshilo uWaugh. Awufuni ukuba nembeko kakhulu. Ukuba kukho umntu okwenza ungonwabi, yenza ingxolo ngayo.

Kwelo thambo, umthetho we-1 kaWaugh njenge-solo ehambahambayo ehamba yedwa kukuhlala esidlangalaleni nabantu adibana nabo. Ukuya kwindawo yabucala, nokuba yiteksi okanye umenyiwe kwikhaya lomntu okanye into elolu hlobo - ungayenzi loo nto, uyacebisa. Kunzima ukuvavanya umntu ongaphandle kwenkcubeko yakho kwaye xa ukwiholide, nonke ninamehlo aqaqambileyo kwaye nichwayitile. Ukuba uhlala kwindawo kawonke-wonke kunye nomntu oyifumanayo inomdla okanye imnandi okanye nantoni na, iya kukhuseleka, ke hlala uhlala kwindawo kawonkewonke.

Ukucinga ukuba Konke ukuHamba yindlela ebeKuhleli ngayo

Njengomntu ophakamileyo, unokuba namava eminyaka yokuhamba, kodwa ungavumeli elo lifu ulwaziso lwakho ngeendlela ezininzi zokuhamba luqhubekile- kwaye zifikeleleke ngakumbi kunangaphambili.

Umzekelo: ngenxa yokuba iihostele zazibizwa ngokuba ziihostele zolutsha, uninzi lwabantu abadala luyazicima okanye lungawahoyi amathuba abawazisayo okuhlala ngokufikelelekayo kwindawo efanelekileyo. Kodwa iihostele azenzelwanga ulutsha kuphela (nangona ukuba nentliziyo encinci kusenokwenzeka ukuba kukudibanisa). Ufumana iintsapho kwiihostele; ufumana abantu abadala kwiihostele- hayi baninzi, kodwa kuhlala kukho omnye umntu omkhulu ehostele, kwaye ke bayindlela entle kakhulu yokuhlala kwenye indawo kwaye babe kwindawo yentlalo, utshilo uWaugh.

Olunye utshintsho olulungileyo kukwanda konxibelelwano. Ukuba ubuhamba nge & apos; 70s- okanye & apos, 80s, nkqu-ukhetho lwakho ekuphela konxibelelwano yayiyeposikhadi okanye umnxeba obiza kakhulu kwifowuni engenangqondo kuba lonke ilizwe linefowuni, utshilo uWaugh .

Ngomnxeba ococekileyo epokothweni-nokuba awusebenzisi kakuhle - unganxibelelana ngomzuzwana, ukuba unqwenela njalo. Zimnkile iintsuku zokuthatha iposi yakho kwiofisi yeAmerican Express.

Ukujongela phantsi indlela yokuHamba kweSolo eSebenzayo

Ukuhamba wedwa kule minyaka idlulileyo kukhokelele ekubeni izibonelelo zayo zamkelwe ngokubanzi- kodwa izipho ezibonelelwa ngabantu abadala zahlukile kwezo zabanye abantu. Ngelixa uhamba wedwa kunokunika umntu oselula ithuba lokuzifumanisa ngokwakhe, kubantu abadala, amava ayanelisa nangezinye iindlela.

Ye-Waugh, imalunga nabantu odibana nabo endleleni. Ngenxa yokuba uwedwa, abantu bangena kwisithuba; abantu bangenelela kwaye baya kuthetha nawe, utsho. Nokuba ngaba abanye abahambi okanye ngaba balapha, ngokwenene ngamava amnandi.

Nangona kunjalo, uyongeza, uninzi lwabadala ludumisa olona luvo luphambili lokuhamba wedwa njengethuba lokwenza into oyifunayo, xa ufuna, nangona ufuna ukuyenza. Xa uzihambela wedwa, akukho zimfuno zabanye abantu okanye ukulungiselela iishedyuli zabo. Ukuba ngaba bavukile ngo-6: 00, ukuba ngaba bavukile ngo-10: 30-nokuba yintoni na, konke kuxhomekeke kubo, utshilo uWaugh. Akunyanzelekanga ukuba baye kwiimyuziyam ukuba bazithiyile iimyuziyam. Banokuya kwiimyuziyam imini yonke ukuba bayazithanda iimyuziyam. Konke kuxhomekeke kubo.

Kwaye, uthi, amava anika amandla ngokumangalisayo. Ngamanye amaxesha njengoko usiya ukhula, usenokuqalisa ukuziva unganako ukusebenza. Uyaphuma uye uzulazule ngokwakho wedwa? Ewe, ubuya uzive umhle darn womelele.

Yiva ngakumbi ngoJanice Waugh ngobuhle kukhenketho lodwa Masihambe Ndawonye , ziyafumaneka nge IiPodcasts zeApple, Spotify , Megaphone , kunye Umthungi .